I grew up in the days of Singer Sewing Machine Stores where girls were taught how to operate a sewing machine on Saturday afternoons by patient old ladies who had long ago mastered their craft. Vests, wrap around skirts and long handled hippy bags made of colorful flowered fabrics, were just a few of the finished products many girls walked out of their class with.

My mother was an amazing seamstress who gave up trying to teach me how to sew. Instead, she wisely enrolled me in a sewing class taught at the Singer Sewing Machine Store. Mrs. Alice was a tiny, white haired  woman who I was sure was older than God himself. She tried her hardest to tutor me on how to read a pattern, manage fabrics and the basics of threading a sewing machine, winding a bobbin and throttling through the simplest stitches.

Three times my mother enrolled me in the same six-week sewing class.  Unfortunately, I was an impatient, bad tempered child who ended up breaking three sewing machines before I finally learned the basics of sewing. Mrs. Alice was a gifted instructor. She never gave up on me; encouraging me with patience and care.
After fits of tears, anger and frustration finally dissipated, I actually ended up learning how to sew.
But if truth be told, I learned far more from Mrs. Alice than just sewing techniques.  I learned a lot about myself, my limits, my well hidden talents and my ability to persevere. She taught me how to turn my temper into talent. To this day I am grateful to both my teacher and my mother and, of course, the Singer Sewing Machine Company. Sorry about the 3 broken machines!

So you might be wondering if it’s time to enroll your own child in a sewing class and here are some reasons to consider.
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Kids reap more than you know, when you teach them to sew.

Math Skills  -  They learn how to calculate the amount of fabric needed to complete an item by understanding the correlation between the length and  width of fabric and the pattern requirements.

Money Management  -   How to figure out just how far money can or cannot  go.  If they have $20.00 and need 3 1/4 yards for a project, what is the most expensive fabric they can buy to complete their project? If they have a  20% off coupon, how much money will they save? Adding up the cost of fabric, patterns, pins and stabilizer can be mind expanding!

​Engineering Skills -    The engineering of how a sewing machine actually works and the value of actually using an instructional manual. The responsibility of taking care of a machine so that it will always work to its fullest.

Time Management  -    Defining and allocating  time necessary to complete a desired item. How to find the time within a schedule already filled with school and sports.

Preparation – Having materials organized and ready to work can make the process go smoother and faster. Taking time to read, reflect, plan out and pin before beginning can lead to greater success.

Persistence  -  By staying committed and working hard – goals are actually attainable. Recognizing mistakes as valuable learning experiences can be key. You can discover just as much from tearing out and starting over as from sewing correctly the first time. Sometimes you have to try more than once to get it right.

Patience -   Learning to slow down, listen, endure frustration and to persevere through challenging learning opportunities, can surely teach patience.  If the project is valued, putting in the effort will be worth it.
Pride  - There is no better feeling than to look at something and know that YOU made it. 

Like learning any new skills, sewing provides a plethora of growth opportunities for your child. Even if you do not sew yourself, there are still many places to take your child so that they can acquire this skill and along the way have fun, make a few new friends and develop self pride.
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What do you sow when you teach a child to sew?  Soooooo much more!
 
I am a retired elementary school principal, an author of parenting books and a fiction series, a mother and a pretty good seamstress. Oh, and I know how to fix my own sewing machine – most of the time!

            I knew that I needed to work on the next chapter of my book if there was any chance it would be completed by this July.  But did I?  Did I hit the keyboard, do a little more research on witchcraft in the 1600’s or even pick up my editing pencil to work on what I’d already written?
            No.  Instead, I sewed.
           I made my granddaughter bibs and blankets and stuffed bunnies. I made pot holders and hot mitts. I love to sew almost as much as I love to write and my two passions often collide with each other. Truthfully, I know I often turn to sewing when I’m stuck for an idea and I was good and stuck! I had a million directions that I wanted to take my story, but no clear path. It always seems that when I’m three quarters of the way through writing a new book, I lose speed. My focus waivers and I become fearful that my creativity is ebbing. A scary feeling indeed for any new writer like myself.
         So what did I do?
         I transferred all of my energies into my third passion – reading. But not just any reading. I was seeking something to jolt my spirits, inspire my creativity and get me motivated. So I want to share with you where I found it – in case you’re ever searching for something to inspire your  own creativity.
            Visiting Barnes and Noble with my sister, on a quest for a book about how to build a bird house, that’s creative right? - I  stumbled upon Where Women Create.  It’s a great magazine, albeit a bit pricey, that shares the stories of truly creative modern day women. And what a great treat it turned out to be!
            I savored the magazine like a fine wine. Okay, I savored it over a couple glasses of fine wine before deciding that I wouldn’t just speed read through the pages. I wanted to immerse myself in each woman’s story, take in her words of inspiration and enjoy the great photography that accompanied each story. I read an account or two each day over the next week. Of course, I soon realized that I had to replace the wine with cups of hot hazelnut coffee – my favorite – if I was going to get the full value out of this periodical.
            The magazine focuses on women who express their creativity daily in a myriad of ways. It talks about what they do, where they do it and how many of them have been able to make a successful career using their innovative skills. They share their tricks of the trade, their frustrations and inspirations. Some seem to have realized success early on while others have worked for years to bring their dreams to fruition.
            Anyway, I truly enjoyed the inspiration I found within the pages of Where Women Create.  These are artsy women who have created magic, many of them from their own kitchen table. The magazine is a relaxing trip through the lives of inventive, resourceful women. I can’t tell you for sure whether it was the wine, the words or the  wonderful stories that inspired me to return to my writing. Whatever it was, it worked and I am back with a renewed spirit.
            Oh, and guess what I else I found in the magazine? A sister series; a magazine  called  (apron*ology). Now I can be inspired with both my writing and my sewing. Who knew?
            Have a wonderful, inspired and magical day!

If you have a moment and the inclination to -  I sure would appreciate it if you'd vote for me. I have been nominated in two different categories for a Paranormal Romance Guild Reviewers Choice Award. For a new writer this is one exciting thing to happen.
Please make sure you click under both categories - then scroll all the way to the bottom to complete the voting process.
Thanks so much for your support and here is the link:
https://www.paranormalromanceguild.com/event/2017-prg-reviewers-choice-awards/
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Today is a great day to share a smile, a kind word and some uplifting words with someone new.....of course, you can always do that again tomorrow.

     It's the last day of January and officially Hot Chocolate Day - a wonderfully uncomplicated event that we all can get behind.  Although I must openly confess that I don't need a special day to encourage me to enjoy a cup of hot chocolate or  really any form of chocolate. 
     Like many of you, I am a choco-holic  with my favorite form of chocolate being Reese's Peanut Butter Cups. I've often wished that Hershey's would make their own peanut butter flavored hot chocolate. In fact, I may have to write  them to share  that idea.
     I just love the taste of Peanut Butter Cups  and each holiday gives me another reason to  celebrate. I revel in Reese's Christmas trees, hearts, pumpkins and eggs.  No matter what peanut butter stuffed shape Hershey's makes - I'll  buy it  because they never fail to make me happy. Oh and I love to take the little cups and bake them into special occasion  cookies. If you haven't done it, you should try.
     Anyway, if you're out and about, working  or just don't have time to grab  a good old cup of hot chocolate, head to your nearest vending machine or market. Hopefully you'll find a Reese's Peanut Butter Cup just waiting for you. Oh, and Easter will soon be here - watch out for those super sized, peanut butter filled eggs.  I might just try melting one in hot milk this year and see if I can create a new Easter treat.
​     Happy Hot Chocolate Day to you all!

       When I heard this morning that it’s - Do Something Fun At Work Day, I originally felt a bit left out.  You see, I’m retired. So what am I supposed to do on this  particular day to have fun? Especially since I now spend my days just writing books,  sewing, doing yoga and walking on the beach.
      Well, retired or not I decided to have some fun by writing, sewing and walking on the beach! No yoga  today – there’s only so much fun I can have in one day! 
                                             Hope you have a fun day at whatever you do!

Every January I sit down and try to establish a few new goals to work on during the upcoming year. I dutifully read articles and listen carefully to speakers all sharing how they successfully reached their goals. And I just want to laugh, cry or get angry.
 
Why is it so easy for some and so hard for the rest of us? Even just thinking about establishing new goals is torture for me as I’m almost always overwhelmed with fear that I’ll not meet my self-established trials. Hence, I’m usually unhappy, even before I start.
 
Sure, over the years I’ve had both success and failure reaching my goals. But mostly I’ve had to be content reaching a frustrated self-awareness tinged with happiness. Huh?
 
Oh sure, I was successful in reaching a couple of my goals this year. I made a large quilt, upped my yoga skills and wrote my first cozy mystery. Ta…da! A lot of hard work went into each of these areas of growth and I am really proud of my successes.
 
But there have been far too many other goals that I just never met. If I let myself dwell on it, I could get really bummed out. There’s still a dress on my sewing room mannequin half sewn. And I never finished it because I didn’t lose the weight to fit into it. Two of several goals not met!
 
So this year I’m taking a different tact – I’m using a revised strategy to set my goals.
 
Instead of just pulling something out of my hat or revisiting goals that I’m just never going to reach,  I’m going to set goals that build on previous successes AND failures. I didn’t set as many as I had in the past, but I did spend some time thinking before coming up with these five that I’d like to share with you.
 
#1        Drink more water-  This should be a relatively easy goal to attain. I just need to remember to have a bottle or glass of water near me at all times…and a bathroom not too far away. I’m getting older and more water equals greater health and I want to be healthier.
#2        Move More - This may sound like such an easy for goal to you. But it’s a tough one for me. You see, I love to sit and sew, sit and write, sit and read, sit and watch movies. In truth, I’m a little embarrassesd to admith that I just love to sit.
Is moving more actually an attainable goal?  Yes – I just need to get my sorry self up and going each and every day. This goal will also require me to organize my life better – to actually calendar specific times to move. Like taking a walk first thing in the morning - because once I sit down to read, sew or write – it’s tough to get me out and about. Again, my focus is on living a healthier life.
#3        Challenge myself to learn one new thing a month  OR how to do one thing a month better than I did before – It may be as simple as learning about a new phone app,  how to use that expensive sewing machine foot I bought last year or how to play Black Jack – something I just realized I’ve always wanted to learn. Four of the months I’m going to force myself to revisit something that I wasn’t very successful at first time around. Since I am a lousy cook – one of the months I’ll focus on cooking for sure. That should be interesting- remember, I am not a good cook - hope no one dies from food poisoning!
#4       Learn how to be a grandmother – This will be a new gig for me and I know that I will have a lot to learn! But it is so exciting.
#5       Make Time – time to smile, to notice things, to say thank you, to laugh at myself and with my friends, to say I love you more and to be grateful.
 
I feel pretty good about these goals. They feel right. They feel doable. Will I reach success? All I can tell you is that I’m not afraid to try, I’m a little excited and more than ready to get started…especially with the one about being a first time grandma!
 
Happy New Year to you all. May 2018 be a healthy, happy year for each and every one of you. And may your goal setting process be a fulfilling and happy experience.
 

I recently returned from an incredible trip to Europe with my husband. We took a Viking Ocean Cruise, visiting Sweden, Finland, Russia, Estonia, Germany, Denmark and Norway. The ship was awesome, crew amazing and tours incredible. Everyone that we met both on and off the ship were friendly and anxious to share their personal stories. If you get a chance to travel, as we did, on the Viking Star you are sure to make more than a few lasting memories. Throughout the two weeks I had to frequently recharge my phone as there were so many interesting people and places to photograph.

Prior to leaving for our trip  I had finished my latest book, Murder By Magic. After sending  it off to my editor for review, I decided that I needed a little break from writing. I was sure that I would be so busy during my travels that I wouldn’t have a chance to even consider any future storylines. But I was wrong, very wrong.

Any of you who have read my books know that I write about witches, magic and mystery. Little did I know that I would discover a magical world filled with witches, Trolls and more as we toured about.
I was especially intrigued at our last stop -  Bergen, Norway. Snuggled between mountains, fjords and glaciers, Bergen is a fishing city steeped in history. Viking warriors, The Hanseatic League and the oil industry have had a lasting effect on this port town. But I was truly surprised to find enchanting folklore  and captivating mysteries tucked throughout this city and roaming freely in the hillsides of this quaint fairy-tale city by the sea.

Early inhabitants of Bergen were sure that something supernatural could be found hiding in the dark forests that surrounded their city. Thought to hide in the rocky slopes and pathways, Trolls have been a big part of the local folklore since the 13th century. Feared, revered - yet loved by many,  these supernatural creatures have been included in the history of Norway for over 700 years. So much so that local roads and byways reflect their presence from Trollstigen to Troll’s Tongue and Troll Peaks – Trolls are ever present. Magical trolls are said to roam the hillsides and I was able to capture a few with my camera as I climbed the hillsides. So many alluring tales attributed to these strange looking inhabitants and I was eager to catalog as many of them as I could.

Not content with just chasing Trolls through the countryside, I came upon an ear catching conversation regarding the witches of Bergen and was soon directed to The Witch Stone (Hekse Steinen). Near the center of town, this memorial honors the 350 witches burned between 1550 and 1700. Anne Pedersdotter, perhaps one of the most famous Norwegian women accused of Witchcraft, was killed for her beliefs in 1590. Her history is engaging to say the least and her presence apparently still felt in Bergen today.  Locals all seem to have their own story to share of how they think witchcraft effected the history of their town.  Some share  remorse for the killings, others express superstition regarding witchcraft in general and  a few thought it best not to speak of it at all. Interesting! 
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This trip proved to be unexpectedly ripe with ideas to mine for my next book. Returning home, I couldn’t wait to get to my computer to begin. Witches, Trolls, magic and mystery – wow who knew!
           
 

I posted a picture on my Facebook site of a Simplicity sewing pattern from around the 1970’s.  The banner on the top read, “ SHARE IF YOU REMEMBER WHEN MOM WOULD MAKE YOUR CLOTHES.”
 
Boy, did it stir some special memories of a different time and place. In one short afternoon, hundreds  liked it and over the days that followed many more liked, shared and commented. The comments just kept coming. It’s probably one of the most active posts I’ve ever had and I’m guessing (although I might be wrong) that many of the comments came from readers in their early fifties or  sixties.
 
Some remembered their mothers (or grandmothers) sewing them everything from special Christmas pajamas to school uniforms to prom dresses. A few bragged that their moms made clothing for their Barbie, Ken and even GI Joe dolls. Some readers noted that they themselves had  struggled through Home EC classes  and told tales of  either sinister  task masters or measuring tape miracle workers.  It was not uncommon to hear about failed sewing projects that made their way home only to be resuscitated by mom. A few said that they themselves now successfully sew for their kids or are envious of  friends who have become master seamstresses.
 
There were some lovely, often humorous, stories shared that not only made me laugh but also got me to thinking. I have four real passions in my life: Family, Writing, Reading and of course- Sewing. And as I was reflecting back,  I realized that each of these passions grew from time spent with my mother.  To mom, family was everything and she raised us to always remember that. She was an avid reader, a poet and a phenomenal seamstress. And through her example, she ingrained a love for each of those things in me. 
 
My own kids have grown up watching me living a life centered around our family, always working on a sewing project, with a book close at hand. And, of course they’ve watched me as I’ve thrown my hat into the writers' ring authoring a number of parenting books and my first fiction series. I hope that we have made some meaningful memories together and I can't help but wonder how these images will effect their lives. What stories/memories they will want  to share with their own children in the future? Although those reflections  may not move them to want to be writers or seamstresses, I sincerely hope they will make them smile, knowing that they were loved.

Do you remember when your mom...or dad...?
 
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I hit an unexpected writer's block this past year. I sort of lost my way and it had me really wondering what to do next with myself.  I have always been a goal driven person who needed to be reaching for that next carrot in order to feel good about myself. Yes, I agree that may not be the healthiest way to live, but I guess it’s just how I’m wired. The other part of me is that I expect that dedication and hard work will more times than not – result in success. But it’s the definition of that word  - success - that suddenly had me paralyzed, and more than a little uncertain of my writing future.
 
It all started three and a half years ago. After thirty-five years in education, I retired. I had loved being an elementary school principal and there were still a thousand stories, strategies and recommendations racing through my head. I wanted to share all that I had learned and decided to try writing parenting books. I poured out my heart and soul with strategies on bullying, homework issues, parent/teacher relationships and more.
 
Six books later I realized that I was getting bored talking about the same old stuff I had for the last thirty-five years. I needed to do something different. I took a chance, deciding to throw my hat into the world of fiction writing. And I had a blast creating my first fictional series The Witches Of New Moon Beach. I created a welcoming - albeit quirky, action packed world filled with witches, magic and love, all at the beach.  
 
Although I was happy with how the series did, I guess I had hoped for more. After all, I felt like I had worked really hard, spending endless hours in front of my computer. Suddenly I was wondering what the “more” was that I was looking for?  More sales..more exposure more…more what?
 
A couple of my friends gently suggested that I might consider giving up. Why spend so much time if it wasn’t truly productive. “I mean are you even making any money?” one asked.  Others said that I should give in to the fact that the e-book market may have shrunk. Maybe I’d missed my chance and I’d never make it big. Maybe I just wasn’t good enough. It left me considering - who was I to think that I might actually make it in this gigantic world of publishing?
 
It was my husband who caught me feeling down one day and said something rather life changing - Get Real! What the heck did that mean, I asked – not really wanting to know the answer.
 
 Then he asked me four powerful questions.

1. Did I still have a passion for writing?
2. Was I having fun?
3. Had I done all that I could to improve my writing skills and publishing opportunities?
4. Was I really ready to throw in the towel and walk away from writing?

 
After dropping these atomic bomb like  questions on me, he calmly reassured me that whatever my answers were – he’d still have my back.
 
I spent a lot of time thinking about his queries. And in the end, it was the answers to those questions that helped me to redefine my idea of success and happiness.
 
I do have a passion for writing. I love creating fictional worlds over which I have total artistic freedom and control. My mind is constantly spinning with new themes and plot lines.
I love creating new characters. It’s fun. In fact, I wake up at night to jot down new ideas that just popped into my head while I was supposed to be sleeping. I carry around my Book O’ Names with me so that when I hear an unusual name I quickly jot it down for later use.
Ouch! No, I hadn’t done everything that I could to improve my writing skills. So I got moving - I listened to writer podcasts, read articles by other writers and secured new support software. I knew that I needed to do a better job editing my books. I’d been zinged for it in the past and recognized that it was one of the areas I could strengthen.  I secured the help of a fab editor - Jenny Jensen. She has been a godsend and has made all of the difference in the world in helping me to tighten up my story lines and confirm correct grammar usage. Most importantly, I feel better about my work with her support.
Hell No! I am not ready to throw in the towel. I love writing and even though I still hit bumps in the road; writing makes me happy.
 
So what did I do with all these newly found answers? I put my head down, recognized that this was what I’m meant to be doing right now – and wrote. I reawakened by imagination and had fun creating a new story – one that I am ready to share with you.
 
Murder By Magic is my first cozy mystery and I sincerely hope that you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it.
 
And should you feel stuck along the way, you are more than welcome to borrow my husband’s four questions to get you headed in the right direction – right for you that is!